其实真正的成熟，不是你越来越会表达，而是当你遭遇一些困难委屈时，学会接受与克制，只有这样，你才能很好地把握自己的人生。
In fact, the real maturity is not that you are more and more able to express, but when you encounter some difficult grievances, learn to accept and restrain, only in this way, you can have a good grasp of their own life.
少年时，我们总是揣着糊涂装明白，长大了以后，我们总是揣着明白装糊涂，这不是说长大后的我们就喜欢这样稀里糊涂的生活，而正是因为想好好生活，所以才这样！因为成年人的世界太脆弱了，一个不小心的拆穿，就会破坏眼前的美好，所以怕了。
Young, we always chuai confused pack understand, grow up, we always chuai understand pretend confused, this is not to say that we grow up like this muddle-headed life, and it is because we want to live a good life, so just so! Because the adult world is too fragile, a careless debunking, will destroy the present beautiful, so afraid.
我想那些真正能够成就大事业的人，都是不屑于跟别人为了一点小事争得面红耳赤，因为他们的时间很宝贵，无谓的争论，只会浪费感情精力，可能这就是大的格局吧！
I think those who can really achieve great things, are above quarreling with others for a little small things red in the face, because their time is precious, meaningless debate, will only waste emotional energy, maybe this is the pattern of the big it!
现在的我们，每天下班后都会觉得很疲惫，我想应该有很多人不是因为工作感到心累，而是因为工作中要处理的同事关系感到累，所以导致身心俱疲。
At present, we all feel tired after work every day. I think many people feel tired not because of work, but because of the relationship between colleagues they have to deal with in work, which leads to physical and mental exhaustion.
小时候父母经常劝我们要努力学习，那是因为没有成年的我们还没有自制力，如果长大后工作了，你还需要父母经常劝你努力工作的话，那我想跟你说，你这一生注定一事无成了！
When we are young, parents often advise us to study hard, because we have no adult, we have no self-control, if you grow up to work, you still need parents often advise you to work hard, then I want to tell you, you are doomed to nothing in this life!
现在我终于明白了，不管去到哪里，不要和别人熟悉的太快，更不要随意地对别人掏心掏肺的，可能别人并没有把你当成真正意义上的朋友，只是你自己把一切都想得太美好了而已。
Now I finally understand, no matter where you go, dont get familiar with others too fast, not to casually to others out of their hearts and lungs, maybe others do not take you as a real friend, just you think everything is too beautiful.
小时候，我们难过的时候，总喜欢用各种方法来吸引别人的注意，长大后，我们越难过的时候，越喜欢沉默不语，不想要在别人面前表现出来，只想自己一个人慢慢去消化掉这份难过！
When we were young, we were sad, always like to use a variety of ways to attract the attention of others, grow up, the more sad we are, the more like silence, do not want to show in front of others, just want to be a person to slowly digest the sad!
结语：其实成长是一件很痛苦的事情，长大后的你，可能不一定会得到些什么东西，但是你肯定会失去一些东西，这便是成长必须要经历的过程。
